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Letter to the editor: Stanley is against proposed MassHealth changes

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(Editor’s note: The Boston Globe ran a story about this issue on January 3, 2016.)

To the editor:

Recently proposed changes to MassHealth eligibility requirements would make it harder for residents older than 65 to establish special-needs trust accounts and still qualify for nursing home care and other health services from state and federal government agencies. The changes would force disabled seniors to spend down their personal financial resources, including held money in a trust, before qualifying for MassHealth benefits. Special-needs trusts allow seniors to pay for extra benefits, such as dental work or a home health aide that are not covered by MassHealth. They have traditionally been exempt from MassHealth income calculations, allowing disabled seniors and families to plan for long-term care and provide them with small comforts that improve their quality of life.

According to MassHealth officials, the changes are being pursued in order to comply with 2008 federal Medicaid guidelines which advised states that disabled individuals over 65 wouldn’t be able to transfer money into a pooled trust without a penalty. However, since MassHealth proposed the special-needs trust revisions, officials from the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS) have pointed out that there are other factors that determine Medicaid eligibility when it comes to trusts and transfers, such as how much money is in a trust and why it was deposited. CMS officials also point out that they don’t necessarily exempt one from becoming eligible for Medicaid if an individual has a special-needs trust.

Long-term care costs make up a large percentage of the MassHealth budget as the median annual cost for a shared room at a nursing home in Massachusetts is $135,000. While it is important for MassHealth to rein in costs to ensure a sustainable future for the agency, any changes to the eligibility requirements in regards to special-needs trusts should be looked at with strict scrutiny. I am very much opposed to these changes and will work with my colleagues in the legislature on measures to reverse them should MassHealth move forward.

Sincerely,

Mass. Rep. Thomas M. Stanley (D-9th Middlesex)

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The year in review (part 2)

Site of the former Aka Bistro, soon to be Lincoln Kitchen.

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2016: the year in review (part 1)

Kids enjoyed ice cream and other diversions at Lincoln’s “40 Years of Community” fair in April 2016.

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January

Council on Aging activities in January

Domestic Violence Services Network hours
January 4 at 10 a.m.
If you are experiencing violence or abuse by a family member, whether physical, emotional, or sexual, or you are concerned about someone who is, come to Bemis Hall on Wednesday, Jan. 4 between 10 a.m. and noon to have a confidential discussion with an advocate from Domestic Violence Services Network, Inc. Come find out more about domestic violence, and how to cope with it, as well as learn about available resources in a supportive, non-judgmental environment. All conversations are completely confidential.

Memoir group welcomes new members
January 4 and 18 at 10 a.m.
The Memoir Group welcomes new members in September and January if there is room in the group. If you are interested in joining us for the January term or want information about the group, please email the facilitator, Connie Lewis (conlewis1000@gmail.com). Memoirs meets on January 4 and 18 at 10 a.m.

Meet with an aide to Congresswoman Katherine Clark
January 4 at 1 p.m.
Jimmy Santos, constituent services and military liaison for Congresswoman Katherine Clark, will hold Office Hours at Bemis Hall on Wednesday, Jan. 4 from 1–2 p.m. on federal benefits and other concerns. No need to sign up.

Free wellness clinic for all ages!
January 5 at 10 a.m.
Meet with a nurse at Lincoln Woods on Thursday, Jan. 5 from 10 a.m. to noon. Blood pressure, nutrition and fitness, medication management, chronic disease management, resources, and more. Funded by the Ogden Codman Trust and provided by Emerson Hospital Home Care.

Get yourself to declutter
January 6 at 10 a.m.
You know you need to declutter, but sometimes you just can’t. You may be overwhelmed with feelings of loss, sadness or anxiety at the thought of letting something go. People accumulate too many material objects for many reasons, and sometimes it has to do with old memories, good and bad, rather than the value of the object itself. Come to Bemis Hall on Friday, Jan. 6 at 10 a.m. when Pam Mizrahi, the COA’s co-assistant director and a social worker, explores some of the reasons why it can be so hard to let go of objects and how we can be more comfortable doing it. Bring your experiences, questions, and concerns.

Ring in the new year with the oldies 
January 6 at 12:30 p.m.
Sing in the New Year with good ol’ oldies of the 1920s, ’30s and ’40s on Friday, Jan. 6 at 12:30 p.m. at Bemis Hall with the Lincoln Traditional Jazz Band. Enjoy remembrances of Bing Crosby, Fats Waller, Irving Berlin, Louis and Ella, and maybe a hint of Eddie Cantor and Al Jolson—lyrics provided to songs like Pennies From Heaven, Ain’t Misbehavin’, and I Can’t Give You Anything But Love.

Pastels with Juliet
Express your most vibrant self with the brilliant colors of pastels in a class with Juliet Rago. She will begin with a short introduction to drawing for those who feel they need it. The class will meet from 10 a.m. to noon on January 9, 13, 20, 23, 27 and 30. No experience is necessary. All materials will be furnished. Please sign up by calling the COA at 781-259-8811. Limit of six people. The fee is $40.

Lincoln Academy with Don Southall: up close and personal with lions, leopards, birds and more in South Africa’s Kruger Park
January 9 at 12:30 p.m.
Come to Bemis Hall on Monday, Jan. 9 at 12:30 to hear Don Southall discuss “Up Close and Personal with Lions, Leopards, Birds and More in South Africa’s Kruger Park.” Don Southall has spent 250 nights on safari in South Africa’s Kruger National Park (the size of Connecticut) taking amazing photos and studying animal behavior up close and personal. He shares stories of his many encounters with predators and prey, winged beauties, and beasts of all kinds and the best of his immense collection of photos. Bring a bag lunch. The Council on Aging provides beverages and dessert. The lectures last about an hour, including a question and answer period. Participants are welcome to stay after the program to continue their discussion.

Free legal clinic
January 9 at 2 p.m.
Got a question about a legal issue? The COA is pleased to provide a monthly legal clinic with elder law attorney and Lincoln resident Sasha Golden on Monday, Jan. 9 from 2-4 p.m. There is no charge for the 30-minute consultation, but advance registration is required. Walk-ins will be accommodated if space is available. Register in advance by calling the COA at 781-259-8811.

Get help with iPhones and iPads
January 12 at 9:30 a.m.
The COA’s programs on iPhones and iPads given by Andy Payne have been so popular that they have asked him to come back yet again! Andy will be at Bemis Hall on Thursday, Jan. 12 at 9:30 a.m. to give you more information on the operation and features of iphones and iPads and answer your questions. You are welcome to attend whether you came to the other sessions or not. If you have tips for using your iPhone or iPad, bring those, too!

Internet and social media: it’s easier than you think!
January 12 at 11a.m.
These days, if you are going to get the word out about events or other things, you need to know how to use the Internet’s social media like Facebook, Reddit, Instagram, Pinterest and Twitter. A growing number of people, especially those who are younger, get all their information online. If you are in charge of publicizing events for an organization or yourself, or you want other people to know about something you are offering or selling, come to Bemis Hall on Thursday, Jan. 12 at 11a.m. when Andy Payne will give an introduction to what social media is and how to use it. It’s easier than you think!

Learn about plans for the Wang property
January 13 at 9:30 a.m.
Join representatives from Parks & Recreation, the Rural Land Foundation and the Birches School on Friday, Jan. 13 at 9:30 a.m. at Bemis Hall to discuss their private-public partnership focused on the former Wang property, located at 100 Bedford Road in Lincoln. The current plan, if approved at the March 2017 Town Meeting, is to develop the 16-acre property as the home of Birches School, to set aside nine acres for conservation and three acres to install an athletic field. The effort, which will be discussed at Town Meeting, is a once-in-a-generation effort to create the first new athletic field in Lincoln in nearly 50 years.

Senior dining
January 17 at 11:30 a.m.
Lincolnites 60 and older are invited to enjoy a delicious gourmet meal with new friends and old at 11:30 on Tuesday, Jan. 17 at St. Anne’s church. Please reserve by calling the COA at 781-259-8811 at least a week ahead even if you have previously attended. The cost of each meal is $5. Caregivers are welcome to come with those for whom they are caring. Let the COA know if you need transportation or a seating partner. The lunch is co-sponsored by the COA, the Friends of the COA, Minuteman Senior Services, Newbury Court, St. Anne’s and the Lincoln Garden Club. A special dessert will be provided by the staff and children of the Magic Garden Children’s Center.

Coffee with artist Dilla Gooch Tingley
January 17 at 2:30 p.m.
Join artist Dilla Gooch Tingley at “Coffee with the Artist” at Bemis Hall on Tuesday, Jan. 17 at 2:30 p.m. to see her fabric wall hangings inspired by Vincent Van Gogh, Pablo Picasso and The Group of Seven. The Group of Seven are Canadian landscape painters including Lawren Harris, J.E.H. MacDonald, A.Y. Jackson, Arthur Lismer, Frankin Carmichael, F.H. Varley and Frank Johnson who produced exciting paintings of the spectacular Canadian wilderness and who believed that art should permeate all our lives.

The COA science group: the evolution of science
January 19 at 10 a.m.
The evolution of science presents a number of fundamental questions. Join John Getsinger, an attorney who has studied mathematics, medicine, and science, as he explores three questions he finds particularly interesting on Thursday, Jan. 19 at 10 a.m. at Bemis Hall. (1) Foundations: How is science even possible? (the physics of thought); (2) Dynamics: What makes the evolution of science possible? (things change vs. ideas change); (3) Open problems: does science have to evolve in order to explain NASA’s em-drive experiment? (or, “wait, what happened to the action-reaction law?”) If you have any thoughts on these questions you would be willing to share with John in advance, email him at jrgetsin@gmail.com.

Coffee with a cop
January 19 at 1 to 2:30 p.m.
Come to Bemis Hall on Thursday, Jan. 19 from 1 to 2:30 p.m. to meet privately with a Lincoln police officer. Do you have a security concern regarding yourself, a family member or neighbor? An idea for the Police should try? Would you like guidance about a situation? Come on down! No need to make an appointment. An officer will be at Bemis each third Thursday of the month.

Better relationships for a better life
January 20 at 9:30 a.m.
Having close friends and family can reduce stress and depression and even help you live longer. But our later years may bring challenges to our relationships when we move, after we retire, when friends and family become ill or pass away, or when we have trouble getting out to be with others. Come to Bemis Hall on Friday, Jan. 20 at 9:30 when social worker Claire Gerstein discusses the importance of healthy relationships, how we can improve the relationships we have, and find people with whom to form new ones. Whether you are feeling more isolated than you would like, or just want to learn more about the interconnection between health and relationships, come hear what Claire has to say, and give your own thoughts and ideas.

A traveler’s-eye view of Japan
January 20 at 12:30 p.m.
“Japan: Where Tradition Meets the Future” is more than just the national tourism board slogan. Temples, shrines, and imperial history mixed with bullet trains, harajuku girls and anime to create a fascinating and unique place that should be on every traveler’s radar. Come to Bemis Hall on January 20 at 12:30 when Peggy Dawson will share ideas and tips from her recent trip.

2017 Top of the Town winter gala
January 21 at 5 p.m.
Are you planning to go to the Top of the Town Winter Gala on Saturday, Jan. 21 from 5 to 8 p.m. at the deCordova Museum? If so, please send in the reservation form on the invitation mailed to you in December. The form must reach the FLCOA at PO Box 143, Lincoln, MA 01773 or Bemis Hall by January 12 to confirm your attendance. This is a catered party, and an accurate head count is important! Because there is a space limit of 200 persons, the FLCOA will start a wait list if replies reach that number. They request that you let them know promptly if you must cancel so they can notify the next person on the list. While the Friends of the Lincoln COA are pleased to host this event with free admission for Lincoln residents, they greatly appreciate your donations to show your support for this event.

Lincoln Academy with Nancy Bergen and Sally Kindleberger: Icelandic adventures on horseback
January 23 at 12:30 p.m.
Come to Bemis Hall on Monday, Jan. 23 at 12:30 to hear Nancy Bergen and Sally Kindleberger discuss “Icelandic Adventure on Horseback.” Nancy Bergen and Sally Kindleberger share their adventures in Iceland last summer. Riding Icelandic horses through breathtaking forests and along a beautiful beach, taking a monumental hike, swimming in a “hot river” and seeing beautiful scenery including geysers and the largest falls in Europe are just some their experiences. Bring a bag lunch. The Council on Aging provides beverages and dessert. The lectures last about an hour, including a question and answer period. Participants are welcome to stay after the program to continue their discussion.

World hand drumming for fun and well-being
January 24 at 9:30 a.m.
Hand drumming is a fun and unique way to express yourself and enhance well-being that’s sweeping the country. It’s a great way to spend enjoyable time with others, improve overall musical skills, and de-stress, relax and feel more positive. Come try hand drumming in a special one-time, free demonstration workshop with acclaimed drummer Mike Connors from the Concord Conservatory of Music on Tuesday, Jan. 24 at 9:30 a.m. No need to bring a drum. If there is interest, the COA will offer a spring class.

Fireside chat: saving Planet Earth
January 25 at 10 a.m.
How helpful are limiting family size or veganism in our efforts to save the planet? Come join others in a lively but respectful discussion of this topic using questions and answers on Wednesday, Jan. 25 at 10 a.m. at Bemis Hall. The Fireside Chats happen once each month, on the fourth Wednesday at 10 a.m., and are facilitated by Sharon Antia. The purpose is not to convince others of your opinion, but rather to share information and ideas so as to create dialogue and greater understanding.

January 27 at 9:30 a.m.
Have a tax prep question?
If you have a simple question about your taxes or preparation of your returns, come to Bemis Hall on January 27 from 9:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. when Packy Lawler will hold “office hours.” Packy is one of Lincoln’s highly trained AARP/IRS TaxAide counselors who provides free preparation of federal and state tax returns each year. Please call the COA at 781-259-8811 to sign up for an appointment.

Multigenerational sing-along
January 27 at 3:30 p.m.
The LEAP after-school program, the Lincoln Council on Aging and the Magic Garden Children’s Center invite Lincoln residents of all ages to enjoy a free Multigenerational Concert and Sing-Along as part of the Winter Carnival on Friday, Jan. 27 at 3:30 p.m. at Bemis Hall. The program will include singing groups from each of the three organizations and then a sing-along including all groups and the audience at the end. Members of the audience will enjoy favorite folk songs, children songs, and more. Then, audience members will join seniors and kids in a short sing-along of some songs that are beloved from childhood and others that are new and delightful.

Lincoln Academy with Donald L. Hafner (Captain, Lincoln Minute Men): Mary Flint Hartwell and the Alarm on April 19, 1775
January 30 at 12:30 p.m.
Come to Bemis Hall on Monday, Jan. 30 at 12:30 to hear Donald L. Hafner, Captain of the Lincoln Minute Men, discuss “Mary Flint Hartwell and the Alarm on April 19, 1775.” Mary Flint Hartwell has a prominent role in local lore about the events of April 19, 1775. The most vivid version has Mary Hartwell carrying the alarm to her neighbor, Captain William Smith. This engaging version, however, is contradicted by older evidence. Still, she may be entitled to more, rather than less, credit in spreading the alert. Inaccuracies in the modern version therefore risk doing disservice to her role and courage on April 19th. Bring a bag lunch. The Council on Aging provides beverages and dessert. The lectures last about an hour, including a question and answer period. Participants are welcome to stay after the program to continue their discussion.

News acorns

Seeking wellness practitioners for Winter Carnival

A winter wellness fair is in the works as part of Lincoln’s Winter Carnival at the end of January. Any practitioner in town whose practice can be categorized as holistic, wellness, complementary, integrative, or alternative is welcome to be present to showcase their practices and share wisdom. The proposed time slot is Sunday, Jan. 29 from 10:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. at Bemis Hall. This would be for promotional purposes only and to offer wellness to the community. If you are a wellness practitioner, or know someone who is and would be interested in participating, please contact Jai Kaur Annamaria San Antonio at asanajai@verizon.net or 781-738-1920.

Spring wellness clinics for all ages

Lincoln residents of all ages are invited to meet with a nurse through a free Town service. Come to get your blood pressure checked, ask questions, or learn about wellness resources. Clinics will be held at the Community Building at Lincoln Woods at 50 Wells Road from 10 am to noon on Fridays January 8, February 5, and March 4. These clinics are funded by the Ogden Codman Trust and provided by Emerson Hospital Home Care. For info, please call the COA at (781) 259-8811.

Domestic Violence Services Network to hold Lincoln office hours; seeks toiletries

If you are experiencing violence or abuse by a family member, whether physical, emotional or sexual, or you’re concerned about someone who is, come to Bemis Hall on Wednesday, Jan. 4 between 10 a.m. and noon to have a confidential discussion with an advocate from the Domestic Violence Services Network, Inc. (DVSN). Come find out more about domestic violence and how to cope with it, as well as learn about available resources in a supportive, non-judgmental environment. All conversations are completely confidential.

Women and children who are in shelters remaking their lives after experiencing domestic violence need toiletries like shampoo, soap, toothpaste, hand and body lotions, and more. If you have unopened toiletries from hotels or stores that you can’t use, please bring them to Bemis Hall by Friday, Feb. 6. A volunteer will take them to local domestic violence organizations for Valentine’s Day distribution.

 

Christmas tree removal offered

Tired of dragging your Christmas tree to the transfer station? As a benefit for the Class of 2020 and the girls’ basketball team, The students of Lincoln-Sudbury Regional High School will come to your home, pick up your Christmas tree and dispose of it.  (This is for residents of Sudbury and Lincoln only.). Pickup will be on Saturday, Jan. 7 from 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. The cost is $20, or $10 for senior citizens. To sign up, please email LSxmastreepickup@gmail.com by Wednesday, Jan. 4.  Please include your name, address and phone number in your email. Once we receive your request, we will send you a confirmation within 48 hours. If you do not receive a confirmation, please call Kathleen Thompson (Class of 2020 Advisor and basketball coach) at 978-443-9961 x ext. 3410.

Free income tax help

Volunteers certified under the AARP TaxAide program will prepare your federal and Massachusetts personal income tax returns or answer your tax questions. This free service can answer most of the tax issues faced by low- and middle-income taxpayers, with special attention to those over age 60. Appointments begin in February. Call the COA office at 781-259-8811 to schedule a confidential appointment and get a list of documents to bring.

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Lincoln shares in $50,000 grant

Lincoln and 11 other area towns have been awarded a $50,000 state grant to help devise a regional approach to complying with stormwater drainage rules. The funding is part of $1 million in Community Compact grants recently announced for efficiency and regionalization efforts in 72 municipalities and 10 school districts. Earlier this month, Lincoln formally joined the Community Compact program, which offers technical and grant assistance for water resource management, housing and economic development, and business continuity projects.

First Day at Pierce House on Jan. 1

Lats year’s First Day gathering at the Pierce House. Photo by Harold McAleer.

Come to the historic Pierce House (17 Weston Rd.) to celebrate the new year together at the town’s 18th annual First Day gathering on Sunday, Jan. 1 from 1-5 p.m. Complimentary admission for Lincoln residents, but donations are gratefully accepted for the upkeep of this town resource. Soup-serving volunteers are also needed for one-hour shifts; please contact Richard Silver with your preferred time slot at richard@piercehouse.com or 781-259-9757.

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magicgardenMagic Garden open house

Magic Garden Children’s Center will host an open house for prospective 2017-18 families on Saturday, Dec. 3 from 10 a.m. to noon. Magic Garden, which is located in the Hartwell building on the Ballfield Road school campus, offers year-round care for children ages 15 months to 5 years Monday through Friday from 7:30 a.m. to 6 p.m. with flexible schedules. While this event is geared towards answering parents’ questions, children are welcome to attend and play in our classrooms. Children’s activities and a snack will be provided. Call 781-259-8161 for more information. Walk-ins are welcome.

‘The Syrian Bride’ screening by GRALTA Foundation

The GRALTA Foundation continues its exploration of the Israel-Palestine conflict with an award-wining Israeli film, The Syrian Bride, in Bemis Hall on Wednesday Dec. 7 at 7 p.m. and Sunday, Dec. 11 at 2 p.m. Set in Majdal Shams, the largest Druze village in the Golan Heights on the Israeli-Syrian border, the bride Mona is engaged to get married to Tallel, a TV comedian from Damascus. They have never met, and when Mona moves to Syria, she will lose her undefined nationality and will never be allowed to return home. This “woven” story deals with Mona’s feminist sister, the complex and strained relations within Mona’s family, and government bureaucracy. The film was nominated for seven Israel Film Academy awards and won the Montréal World Film Festival Grand Prix along with three other awards. There is no charge, and light refreshments will be served.

wreathTouch of Christmas Fair

The First Parish in Lincoln will hold its Touch of Christmas Fair on Saturday, Dec. 10 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. in the Parish House Auditorium at 14 Bedford Rd. This annual event features a visit from Santa Claus at 11 a.m., and children can pose for pictures with him. Before and after the visit, attendees can enjoy craft tables, a baked-goods area with lots of holiday treats, and a treasures table with second-hand antiques, housewares and more. Fragrant wreaths and centerpieces are also for sale and made by volunteers the week prior to the fair. Psalm Soup will be available for lunch. There will be a Christmas cookie decorating station, a fishing tree, an ornament-making area and a special children’s Christmas shopping room. For more information, contact Nancy Fleming at nlfleming@comcast.net or Karin Levy at karinlevy54@gmail.com.

How was your home energy assessment?

Have you had a home energy assessment this year? If so, Lincoln’s Green Energy Committee wants to hear from you. We’re working to make these assessments a great experience that results in real savings for you and for our community. Mark Deck is part of the Green Energy Committee team and would like to interview you. Please contact committee member Mark Deck at 781-718-6815 or mark.john.deck@gmail.com. To sign up for a free home energy assessment, call 617-752-1259 or go to LincolnEnergyChallenge.org.

Free classical concert on December 10

Lincoln musicians Jessica Tunick Berens and Trevor Berens present a free concert of modern classical music for voice and piano and for solo piano inspired by Buddhist, Christian and Taoist traditions on Saturday, Dec. 10 from 8-9:30 p.m. in Bemis Hall. The program will include John Cage’s One, Yuji Takahashi’s For Thomas Schultz, Arvo Part’s Fur Alina, Frederic Rzewski’s The Turtle and the Crane, Paul Humphreys’ The Legend of Lao Tse and Mel Powell’s Levertov Breviary.

Toys for Tots drive

Lincoln Police are partnering again with the Marine Corps Reserve’s Toys for Tots campaign, collecting new, unwrapped non-violent toys for boys and girls. Bins are located in the Public Safety Building lobby, Donelan’s, the Parks & Recreation office, Town Hall, the Lincoln Public Library, the Council on Aging, and The Commons in Lincoln. The campaign runs until Friday, Dec. 16.

Council on Aging activities in December

bemisJazz oldies concert
December 2 at 12:30 p.m.
The Lincoln Traditional Jazz Band will present a concert of beloved songs from the early days of jazz at Bemis Hall at 12:30 on Friday Dec. 2. Channel your inner Al Jolson, Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, Frank Sinatra, or Fats Waller by singing along with the band. Or, if you prefer to get up and move around to the music, feel free to do your best Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers. Everyone welcome!

Lincoln Academy with Moses Ajou: South Sudanese enrichment for families, its vision and future
December 5 at 12:30 p.m.
Come to Bemis Hall on Monday, Dec. 5 at 12:30 to hear Moses Ajou discuss “South Sudanese Enrichment for Families, Its Vision and Future.” Learn how South Sudanese Enrichment for Families (formerly the Sudanese Education Fund) is embarking on its next stage of organizational transformation through the 2020 Project with a commitment to greater impact, community leadership, a flourishing community center, and innovative approaches in order to advance opportunity, security, cohesion, and sustainability of the South Sudanese diaspora of greater Boston. They envision future community development based on declining reliance on charity-based operations, and a strategic rise in business-based income and practical job skills improvement. Bring a bag lunch. The Council on Aging provides beverages and dessert. The lectures last about an hour, including a question and answer period. Participants are welcome to stay after the program to continue their discussion.

Coffee with artist Donna Hunsberger
December 6 at 2:30 p.m.
All are invited to enjoy coffee with artist Donna Hunsberger on Tuesday, Dec. 6 at 2:30 to celebrate her exhibit of delightful, vivid paintings that are on exhibit in Bemis Hall through December. Donna earned her BFA from the University of Buffalo and has had a long career of being a “Sunday painter” ever since. Instead of painting from outdoor views or pictures, this bold colorist paints in abstractionist terms—working mostly from layered memories.

Domestic Violence Services Network office hours
December 7 at 10 a.m.
If you are experiencing violence or abuse by a family member, whether physical, emotional, or sexual, or you are concerned about someone who is, come to Bemis Hall on Wednesday, December 7 between 10 a.m. and noon to have a confidential discussion with an advocate from Domestic Violence Services Network, Inc. Come find out more about domestic violence, and how to cope with it, as well as learn about available resources in a supportive, non-judgmental environment. All conversations are completely confidential.

“Mame” at the Stoneham Theatre
Remember, the matinee performance of Mame at the Stoneham Theatre will be on Thursday, Dec. 8. The Doherty bus will be at the Lincoln Mall at 12:45 p.m., and will depart promptly at 1 p.m. Light refreshment will be served at intermission free of charge. This trip is rated easy for physical difficulty with a short walk and no stairs at the theatre. The cost for the trip is $25 and is subsidized by the Hurff Fund. If you have not signed up and would like to see if there are any spaces left, please contact Virginia at vobrien39@yahoo.com or 781-259-1291.

Paint a silk scarf
December 9 at 9:30 a.m.
Silk scarves are elegant and just right for so many occasions. When you paint a scarf you add your own touch in a beautiful and unique way. Join Karen Halloran, community liaison at CareOne at Concord, for a complimentary silk scarf painting class on Friday, Dec. 9 at 9:30 a.m. You will leave with a lovely scarf for yourself or a gift for a friend! No experience necessary and all materials included. Call the COA at 781-259-8811 to sign up (limited to 12).

Online newspapers: what they are, how to read them and get them
December 9 at 12:30 p.m.
More and more, the latest news is available only online or online first, and we need to know how to find it if we are to stay in touch even if we have a subscription to a printed newspaper. Come to Bemis Hall on Friday, Dec. 9 at 12:30 p.m. when Alice Waugh, editor of the online Lincoln Squirrel, comes to tell us more about what online newspapers are and how to find them on the web, navigate through them for the information you need, and get a subscription to them. It’s easier than you think and you’ll be amazed at the array of news at your fingertips!

Lincoln Academy with Raymond Levy: fathers in obstetrics and pediatrics
December 12 at 12:30 p.m.
Come to Bemis Hall on Monday, Dec. 12 at 12:30 to hear Raymond Levy, Psy.D., discuss “Fathers Can Be Found Everywhere: Fathers in Obstetrics and Pediatrics.” The Fatherhood Project (TFP) at MGH, a nonprofit within the Psychiatry Department, is developing research and programs for fathers to improve child outcomes by helping fathers be more knowledgeable, active and emotionally engaged with their children. TFP has completed original research on fathers in prenatal care leading to changes in the obstetrical service. In addition, TFP has an innovative program in Pediatrics that engages fathers in the lives of their children while learning state of the art parenting skills. Bring a bag lunch. The Council on Aging provides beverages and dessert. The lectures last about an hour, including a question and answer period. Participants are welcome to stay after the program to continue their discussion.

Free legal clinic
December 12 at 2 p.m.
Got a question about a legal issue? The Council on Aging is pleased to provide a monthly legal clinic with elder law attorney and Lincoln resident Sasha Golden on Monday, Dec. 12 from 2-4 p.m. There is no charge for the 30-minute consultation, but advance registration is required. Walk-ins will be accommodated if space is available. Register in advance by calling the COA at 781-259-8811.

Meet with an aide to Congresswoman Katherine Clark
December 14 at 1 p.m.
Jimmy Santos, constituent services and military liaison for Congresswoman Katherine Clark, will hold office hours at Bemis Hall on Wednesday, Dec. 14 from 1 to 2 p.m. on federal benefits and other concerns. No need to sign up. Please note special day for this month only.

COA science group: ethics and climate change
December 15 at 10 a.m.
Climate change has not only a scientific component, but an ethical one as well that relates to political, economic, and other actions on local, national, and international levels. The COA Science and Technology Club invites you to a presentation and discussion led by John Terrell, Ph.D., on Thursday, Dec. 15 at 10 a.m. at Bemis Hall on the many facets of ethics and climate change. Mr. Terrell will highlight the most recent successful Annual Town Meeting warrant article and a critique of the Paris Agreement including the possibilities of various alternate energy options and the economic and political necessities to effectively combat climate change. Come with your questions, concerns, and ideas!

Coffee with a cop
December 15, 1-2:30 p.m.
Come to Bemis Hall on Thursday, Dec. 15 from 1-2:30 p.m. to meet privately with a Lincoln police officer. Do you have a security concern regarding yourself, a family member or neighbor? An idea for the police should try? Would you like guidance about a situation? Come on down! No need to make an appointment. An officer will be at Bemis on the third Thursday of every month.

Caring for yourself when you’re the caregiver
December 16 at 9:30 a.m.
If you’re a caregiver, whether as a parent, spouse, adult child, relative or friend, you probably give your time, compassion and physical self to your loved one without taking time out for yourself. This one-hour workshop presented by Lincoln resident Catherine Collins, RN, MS, on Friday, Dec. 16 at 9:30 will offer simple self-care practices that can be incorporated into a 10-minute break. Techniques will include breathing practices, imagery, progressive muscle relaxation, and gentle movement. You’ll also learn simple, comforting techniques to use with your loved one such as a simple reflexology point and the “hand/heart connection” technique.

Digital photography: capture your holidays
December 16 at 12:30 p.m.
If you want to make sure you have the best photos of the holidays, come to a workshop with Harold McAleer on digital photography on Friday, Dec. 16 at 12:30 p.m. at Bemis Hall. Harold will go over taking digital photos with your camera and your phone, then editing and emailing pictures from your computer. If you have a digital camera, bring it along!

Senior dining
December 20 at 11:30 a.m.
Lincolnites 60 and older are invited to enjoy a delicious gourmet meal with new friends and old at 11:30 on Tuesday, Dec. 20 at St. Anne’s Church. On the menu will chef’s choice of soup, rolls and butter, roast turkey dinner with stuffing, extra gravy and cranberry sauce, mashed potatoes, green beans, and pastry chef’s choice of holiday torte. Please reserve by calling the COA at 781-259-8811 at least a week ahead even if you have previously attended. The cost of each meal is $5. Caregivers are welcome to come with those for whom they are caring. Let the COA know if you need transportation or a seating partner. The lunch is co-sponsored by the COA, the Friends of the COA, Minuteman Senior Services, Newbury Court, St. Anne’s, and the Lincoln Garden Club.

Give yourself the gift of forgiveness
December 21 at 10 a.m.
Forgiveness is not simply an attitude or an action towards someone who has wronged you, but a way of living more peacefully and joyfully. Come find out about some of the most up-to-date research on the benefits of forgiveness and exactly what it means to make forgiveness a part of your life when Betsy Connolly, MS, executive director of Traditions in Wayland, comes to Bemis Hall on Wednesday, Dec. 21 at 10 a.m. Connolly will talk about how to view something or someone differently, how to begin to forgive even if you think you can’t, and more.

Fireside chat: political correctness and censorship
December 28 at 10 a.m.
Do we feel the tide is swinging toward being overly sensitive to others? Is it a good idea to ban certain speakers at college events much as we used to ban books from school libraries? Of course we need to be respectful of others when we speak, but is there room for differing views and discussion around what hurts us rather than laying down the gauntlet for all? Come join others in a lively but respectful discussion of this topic using questions and answers on Wednesday, Dec. 28 at 10 a.m. at Bemis Hall. The Fireside Chats happen on the fourth Wednesday of the month at 10 a.m. and are facilitated by Sharon Antia. The purpose of the Fireside Chats is not to convince others of your opinion, but rather to share information and ideas so as to create dialogue and greater understanding.

Color your life with pastels with Juliet
Express your most vibrant self with the brilliant colors of pastels in a class with Juliet Rago. She will begin with a short introduction to drawing for those who feel they need it. The class will meet from 10 a.m. to noon on January 9, 13, 20, 23, 27 and 30. No experience is necessary. All materials will be furnished. Please sign up by calling the COA at 781-259-8811. Limit of six people. The fee is $40.

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How to talk to kids about the election

Licensed psychologist and Lincoln resident/parent Cris Ratiner will lead a conversation on “How to Talk with Your Children About the Election and Its Aftermath” on Tuesday, Nov. 15 at 6:30 p.m. in the Hartwell multipurpose room. Ratiner has worked with parents and families in ordinary times as well as extraordinary times (9/11, Hurricane Katrina, the Boxing Day tsunami). Anyone with questions may email her at crisratinerphd@gmail.com.

Second open space forum on Wednesday

The second community forum for the Open Space and Recreation Plan update takes place on Wednesday, Nov. 16 at 7 p.m. in the Town Hall Donaldson Room. The group is in the final phase of community outreach and goal setting (see the Lincoln Squirrel, July 20, 2016).

‘How to Succeed In Business Without Really Trying’

LSB Players, the theater production company of Lincoln-Sudbury Regional High School, presents How to Succeed In Business Without Really Trying on November 16, 17, 18 and 19 at 7:30 p.m. in the high school’s Kirschner Auditorium. The musical traces the journey of J. Pierrepont Finch as he follows a guide that instructs him on how to rise to the top of the corporate world on charm and cunning alone. This hilarious satire is based on an actual book by Shepherd Mead, and is a clever, tongue-in-cheek send-up of corporate life featuring familiar songs by Frank Loesser like I Believe in You, The Brotherhood of Man and Been A Long Day. Tickets are $15 for adults and $8 for senior citizens/students. Click here to reserve tickets.

Sheila Katz

Sheila Katz

Talk on Israel/Palestine nonviolence

Sheila H. Katz, Professor of Middle East History at Berklee College, will present “Connecting with the Enemy: A Century of Palestinian-Israeli Joint Nonviolence” on Monday, Nov. 21 at 7 p.m. in the Lincoln Public Library. The talk presents the first comprehensive history of grassroots nonviolent alternatives to the lethal collision of the two national movements despite condemnation by their own societies, repetitive diplomatic failures, harsh inequalities, and endemic cycles of violence. Presented by the GRALTA Foundation (Grass Roots Awareness, Learning, Travel and Action), which is also organizing an Israel-Palestine study tour from Jan. 4-14, 2017. For more information, call Steve and Barbara Low at 781-259-1300.

Lincoln seniors invited to dinner next Wednesday

Lincoln-Sudbury Regional High School warmly invites Lincoln senior citizens to a Thanksgiving dinner at the school on Wednesday, Nov. 23 at noon, complete with performances by the L-S Jazz Band and dancers. Please call the Council on Aging at 781-259-8811 to sign up.

‘Gratitude Trees and Campfire’ at Farrington Nature Linc

Start your Thanksgiving holiday with an evening focused on thankfulness and time spent in nature at Farrington Nature Linc on Wednesday, Nov. 23 from 6:30-8:30 p.m. During the “Gratitude Trees and Campfire” program, families can decorate preserved leaves to create a beautiful gratitude tree to take home, make leaf-inspired table art, listen to stories around the campfire and eat s’mores. Registration is required; call or email Program Director Brianne at brianne@naturelinc.org or 978-764-9186. Suggested donation: $10/person. Farrington Nature Linc is at 295 Cambridge Turnpike (Route 2 eastbound) directly after Gerard’s Farm Stand.

Thanksgiving night contra dance

Lincolnites are invited to a Thanksgiving Night contra dance on Thursday, Nov. 24 from 7-10 p.m. in the Smith School gym featuring musicians Larry Unger and Julie Metcalf, and caller Chris Ricciotti. All ages and abilities are welcome. Tickets are $6 for adults and students, $4 for children 10 and under. Sponsored by the First Parish Church. For more information, call 781-259-0692 or email kwinchell@comcast.net.

 

Middlesex DA offers tips on avoiding theft and scams

Middlesex County District Attorney speaks to the Lincoln Council on Aging.

Middlesex County District Attorney speaks to the Lincoln Council on Aging.

Hang onto your purse in the supermarket, move your garbage cans, and don’t fall for the “grandparents scam” were some of the bits of advice offered by Middlesex County District Attorney Marian Ryan at a Council on Aging crime prevention talk.

Ryan, who headed the DA’s Elder and Disabled Persons Protection Unit for 20 years, described at the September 23 session some of the ways that senior and others are sometimes victimized by criminals. The #1 way that people over 60 have money stolen, she said, is by leaving a purse in their shopping cart—and most victims don’t even know it until the store’s security personnel, who saw the theft on surveillance cameras, chases down the thief and retrieves the bag.

Other crime prevention tips offered by Ryan:

  • Move your trash cans inside your garage or far away from windows. They make an easy stepladder for thieves to break in through a high window.
  • Don’t open the door to strangers, even if they don’t seem dangerous, such as a woman saying her car has broken down or whose child needs a bathroom. While you’re keeping an eye on the person after you left the door open, an accomplice could very well be ransacking the front room.
  • Don’t leave your car door unlocked while you’re loading groceries in the back. It takes just a moment for someone to grab your purse off the front seat.
  • Keep tabs on your medication. Pharmacy workers with addictions may leave your bottle of painkillers a few pills short or substitute a different medication, so count your pills and know what they’re supposed to look like. Also, if you’re having a real estate open house, don’t leave prescription medicines unlocked in your medicine cabinet.

Ryan also offered some detailed advice on financial safety for seniors. Over one recent six-week period, her office handled cases in which over $1 million had been stolen, “and it’s largely people you know using perfectly legal means to take money from you,” she said.

Joint bank accounts and powers of attorney are prime avenues for theft. Seniors sometimes put a relative or trusted friend on their bank account to help pay bills, but that other person “legally owns all the money in the account even if they haven’t contributed any of it,” Ryan said. “There’s no obligation to use that money for you.”

If you want to give someone access to your funds while you’re hospitalized or away for the winter, put into the account only the amount of money you think will be needed for that period of time, rather than your entire checking account.

“Even if the person was very trustworthy at the time you put them on the account, life changes—there could be a lost job or a bad divorce,” Ryan said. “We’d be wealthy if we had a dollar for every time someone said, ‘I was only going to borrow once. Mom wouldn’t mind if just this month I paid my mortgage and then I’ll be back on my feet next month.’ But they’re never back on their feet and the money never goes back.”

Giving someone power of attorney works much the same way. “When you give someone your power of attorney, you have legally made them you—you have cloned yourself. So anything you could do to your property, they are completely free to do,” Ryan said. The solution: include a time or dollar limit to the power of attorney, and don’t give the power to multiple people.

Guard your personal information closely, Ryan said. Phone scammers often claim they’re from the bank and lost your account number, or they’re from the IRS and need to collect on unpaid taxes, or you missed jury duty but can clear it up by paying a fine.

By using information that’s readily available on social media, a scammer might call to tell you your grandson who’s away at college was arrested last night and asked if she could send bail money. It sounds because they know the grandson’s name and what college he attends, “so you stay on the phone because they’re giving you information that’s true,” she said.

Whenever someone asks for payment or financial information, “never give that information over the phone,” Ryan said. Also, although scammers may sound helpful, “they’re always rushing you. Take a minute, step back and think about it.”

Sometimes victims eventually realize they’re been deceived but are reluctant to report it. “People just get embedded in these stories and are really unable to accept how badly they’re in on this, and embarrassed to go to the police,” Ryan said.

This also applies to people who knock on your door offering to do a job for you and then demand an excessive fee. Victims may be frightened and hand over a check, but Ryan urged them to call the police immediately, even if it’s after the fact.

“Even if you think you’ve done something you shouldn’t have done, jump in and stop it,” she said. “Go to the police and let us warn everyone else.”