Michael Holt Farny, loving husband of Ethel Farny and father of five children, passed away on September 26 at the age of 84. A man of deep faith, Mike was known to all as a passionate, engaging, and vivacious person.
Mike was born on December 23, 1934 in Geneva, Ill., to Phyllis and Cyril Farny. His family moved to Craftsman Farms in Morris Plains, N.J., in 1946. He and his three siblings were raised to care for farm animals, run tractors, and ride horses and bicycles. Mike’s experiences working as a teenager with his brother Dave on ranches in the West, combined with his family’s love of the outdoors, shaped his life’s direction.
As a young man, Mike had many adventures out west, including working as a stunt double in Western films, running a horse-guiding business in Aspen, and working for Dave at Ashcrofters, a mountaineering camp for boys. He received his AB in American history from Princeton University in 1956. Subsequently, Mike studied at the Harvard School of Design for two years before going to California to work for an architect. He later served as a captain in the U.S. Marine Corps, first stationed in Okinawa and later training troops in winter warfare skills in northern California.
Mike taught American history at the Pomfret School, worked in the Admissions Department at Princeton University, and led biking, hiking, and canoeing trips for students and peers. He received an MBA from the Harvard Business School in 1968. Mike worked as a planner for the New England River Basin Commission from 1968–72 before starting his own business, Lincoln Guide Service, that operated from 1972 until 2000.
He formed the Charles River Canoe Service in 1973 and complemented it in 1974 by founding the Weston Ski Track, one of the first cross-country ski centers to make snow in an urban setting. Mike pursued these endeavors out of his love for human-powered vehicles and his passion for teaching outdoor skills to anyone he met. He believed that the triangular relationship of technique, fitness, and environment would lead to greater public health. Based on his group bike tours, Mike wrote a cycling guidebook, New England Over the Handlebars: A Cyclist’s Guide. In 1997 he founded Pro-Motion, a bicycle shop in Bedford.
Mike met Ethel in Cambridge, where they were married in 1968. They raised their family in Lincoln and loved sharing the experiences of camping, hiking, biking, canoeing, and skiing. Mike also loved music. He grew up playing folk guitar and was proud to see his five children become classically trained musicians. Mike was an enthusiastic chaperone on their international youth orchestra tours. He sang for over 40 years in the Trinity Episcopal Church choir and later in the Concord Chorus. Mike and Ethel sang choral works in thirteen summer sessions with Berkshire Choral International in western Massachusetts and in Salzburg, Austria.
Mike is survived by his wife Ethel; his daughter Suzannah Chalick and son-in-law David; his daughter Natasha Farny and her partner Adam Sikora; his son Nathaniel and daughter-in-law Vanessa; his son Caleb and daughter-in-law Natalie; his daughter Evelyn Wadkins and daughter-in-law Melanie; his brother David Farny and sister-in-law Sherry; and seven grandchildren: Gabriel, Aden, and Jocelyn Chalick; Bennett and Wesley Farny; and Cecilia and Miguel Wadkins.
Funeral services will be held at Trinity Episcopal Church (81 Elm St., Concord) on Saturday, Oct. 12 at 2 p.m. Officers of the Marine Corps will present military honors at the beginning of the service. Concord’s town flag will fly at half-staff on Oct. 12 in recognition of Mike’s honorable service to his country. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association (www.alz.org).
Arrangements are under the care of Dee Funeral Home & Cremation Service of Concord. To share a remembrance or to send a condolence in Mike’s online guestbook, please visit this web page.
Wendy and Lem Kusik says
We bought our first off road bikes from Mike in 1980’s and still own one of them. Mike was a neighbor of hours since we moved here in 1983. We often met him on our walks, and he always had a new idea to discuss and to enjoy life. He was a remarkable man. I still remember how excited he was to get his backyard all ready for when his daughter married. He couldn’t have been prouder. I am sure he will be missed by his family.